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What is/are your New Years resolutions?

Discussion in 'Holiday Season and New Year Forum' started by xBlackFlowersx, Jan 1, 2017.

  1. xBlackFlowersx

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    Mine is: Get into the mines (Really good money driving their trucks) being the girly girl I am never stopped me from believing I can do it plus lots of girls are doing it here ❤️

    Also hopefully meeting this cute backpacker goes well! I've always had a thing for accents, she's irresistible to listen to I really want a girlfriend so hopefully my planned beach picnic goes well.

    Also help mother lose weight. We're going to workout together now that I have a little gym going on in the house.

    So, what's everyone's goals? Xx
     
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    Do more sport. Not just for having a masculine body. But for actually having masculine skills. Fighting with weapons. I'm gonna see that club in the area as soon as I cured my cold. Also work harder in general. Apreciate more what I got. And hell, I got a lot of unused stuff. There's a skateboard I have barely used. I want to live my youth and have some more sins before I'm old.
     
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    Sounds great! Good luck with it! :slight_smile:
     
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    Get into college. I'm 26 years old and never started, but I'm desperate for a good degree.
     
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    Mine is to find some peace of mind. I'm new to openly questioning sexuality and gender. It's been a massively confusing, frustrating, mind twisting month or so. Had a breakup over it which has brought a ton of loneliness. Not a good New Year for me.

    So, I'm going to be more honest with myself and what I'm thinking and feeling.
    I'm going to meet some LGBT people. I know none right now. Always avoided meeting people because it brought up uncomfortable feelings.
    I'm going to be as honest as I can with my friends.
    I'm going to keep exercising. It's the only thing keeping me sane right now.
    And I'm going to keep posting here.

    And I think today, Jan 1, I'm going to give myself a break and stop thinking about all of it. I'm way too in my head wanting answers.
     
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    Move out and start transitioning.
     
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    Vlog once a week. Like a private journal, not for YouTube; I regret not having a record of my feelings at other points in my life.

    Write something once a month. Like a private journal but better composed.

    Change my name legally. This will probably be a four-month process beginning at the end of this month. Right up until yesterday/today I wasn't sure I would go through with it, but I'm sure now and I'm glad.
     
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    1. Learn to dance twist and some partner dances by the… hm, male side. (I don't know how to say it in english).
    2. Study more.
    3. Stop doing little self hurt (I've been trying for years, every new year, every birthay/start of week/holiday…)
    4. Study more.
    5. Learn new recipes.
    6. Study more.
    7. Meet the girl I've fallen in love with. I don't need her to talk with me (but that would be nice), don't need her to love me too (but that could also be nice lol), I just want to see her once. I'm tired of photos and things her friends tell me about her, I wish I met her in real life. I last saw her one year ago. (No, she's not a diva. She just cares a huge nothing about me. As if I didn't exist. I tought we were at least friends.)
    8. Study more.
    9. Reach lower notes when I sing. And lower. And lower.
    10. …and lower.
    11. Learn to make more realistic drawings.
    12. Study more.
     
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    @Crisalide: Oh yeah, improving singing is on my list too, but not a specific resolution.
     
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    This.
     
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    My goals are to
    Gain some weight,
    Be more social,
    Stop self harming,
    survive the year and do better in school.
     
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    Loving your responses! Keep them coming :slight_smile:

     
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    Not really New Years resolutions per say, but goals that happened to continue onto the new year,

    -Lose weight
    -Continue getting my disability until control
    -Continue working on dealing accepting myself (particularly being trans and bi)
    -Try and get into school and possibly a job
     
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    1. get fit
    2. find a name that suits me
    3. learn a language
    4. explore my city more
    5. be more organized
     
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    1. be more social
    2. come out
     
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    My New Year Resolution is,
    Find my style
    Study more
    Learn dancing
     
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    Write a song
    Read more books
    Keep a low profile
    Earn a 4.0 (or 3.8) with hard work
    Distance myself around everyone
     
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    1) visit the gym more
    2) dress more andro
    3) join a local LGBT support group