I like to say not straight and let people make their own judgement....you get to a point where you don't really care what other people think, that's where I am at.... I'm 90 percent gay but it didn't stop me marrying opposite sex, now separated....
hmmm then in that case try entertaining some fantasies and see how you feel. usually thats a pretty safe place to start--and be open to what you feel
At least you know you're getting somewhere by not identifying as straight. That was me earlier this year.