I've a few people who have said this. There's a guy that wants to hookup who is out, has a boyfriend in an open relationship, but won't say if he's bi or gay, just "part of the LGBT community". No one really knows how he identifies. I want to ask him but I don't want to be rude. What do you think? Do you think he's in the bi sexual closet or just doesn't like labels for some reason? Why would someone identify this way in your opinion?