I personally despise people that only want a relationship for the sex. It just seems manipulative, insensitive, and makes me think that they are somewhat emotionless. I crave a true and sincere love - I would love it to be remorseful in a good way; I wouldn't care what others thought, as long as I and my partner were happy, that's all that would matter.
I love my husband! Our relationship is not very sexual though because a lot of the time, I'm just down and don't feel like it, but we still love each other and have that mutual support. That's what's most important to me.
the company ---------- Post added 26th Jun 2013 at 07:04 PM ---------- i can't deal with my own 'emotions' as it is!
I want someone who's special to me and vice versa. I hope we can trust each other, love each other for who we are and support each other. Sex is something that will come in time but it's not the most important thing.
I actually don't know what I want out of a relationship, and so I put other. This is probably my moodiness speaking because I'm really happy and scared at the same time. >_<
All of the above would be nice, lolz. The only one I really require from a relationship is the first one but the second one is pretty important too, deeerp.
To be completely honest I could care less about sex with a partner and more if they're there for me when I need a hug. I don't see the thrill of sex, just kissing and cuddling is enough for me So I think I'm saying I need someone whose not all into what goes on in bed but who loves me nonetheless...
I guess it boils down to the love and emotions. I like the way relationships build on top of the initial foundations of emotion, the growth that occurs within them for both parties, it's something that extends beyond basic friendship and develops into an experience that may be experienced again but never quite in the same way. I'm not sure I crave it though, the experience of building a relationship is such that I remain open to the possibility while not giving a hoot one way or another. If it happens I want it to build from an established contact, and I certainly have no desire to become someone who is actively chasing the experience. If it happens, it happens, if it doesn't then I'm perfectly content with my cats.
Well if your question was what do I consider most important in a relationship I would probably go for number 1, but as you ask what do I want from it, I certainly would like both number 1 and 2.
I LOVE the idea of being with someone who I love and who loves me for all mine and her faults. Someone who will always be there for me and who I can be there for and protect if necessary! The "events" in the bedroom would just be an added bonus I suppose.:icon_wink I honestly don't understand how people have random sex with strangers and enjoy it, I feel like it would only be truly satisfying if you have an emotional connection first, but maybe that's just me?:eusa_eh:
i picked 1, but i really would pick 1 and 2 if i could. 1 is most important, and i do want that, but i can't be in a totally sexless relationship.
Love and emotions. The physical's okay, but honestly aside from hugs, kisses, and maybe a little more I don't need full blown sex. It's not a big deal to me. I'd even go as far as saying I could see myself dating someone who's asexual as long as she'd still be willing to express her love for me in other ways.
