What Constitutes A True Sexual Fantasy?

I think a sexual fantasy is at least a moderately-often recurring thought about a particular act you want to engage in that falls into the realm of kink. The reason I think this is (1) if it's not a kink, that's just you wanting to have sex; so if you're a lesbian, having a recurring thoughts about kissing and giving cunnilingus is not really what I'd call sexual fantasy. (2) if it's just a passing thought, it's not really something that tells you about your desires and again, it could just be wanting to have sex as opposed to having it in a sort of unique way.

I guess I just consider sexual fantasy to be inherently kinky.

 

Woah, there's a Wikipedia article on this! Sexual fantasy - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

 

Well, it's called a sexual fantasy, so by implication, I would have thought it was a fantasy about having sex.