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What are you thinking?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Mirko, Feb 28, 2017.

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    Why are emos and punks so cool? Whenever I see that type of fashion in public I'm just in awe. I doubt I'd ever pull that look off, but it's pretty admirable.
     
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    Kinda pissed right now not gonna lie
     
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    Arghh, my dad is just picking on me about every little thing, like he is so perfect himself. It makes me be angry at him and I need to be careful not to just burst about everything for revenge. It's hard though, when you're not mentally in the most stable place either.
     
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    I'm frustrated all the people who said they figured I was gay but never did anything positive to help me figure myself out or make it seem safe to be honest. Also the guys who treat you like shit for taking too long to come out and gossip how you have no experience so you are rejected after all that suffering anyway. I guess I have to move again and make up a new backstory lols.
     
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    I think my mother should pay me for putting up with my father, he threatens my dog and insults me. I should be given a sainthood for not punching the bastard. He thinks it’s hilarious to say put the dog down instead of lock her up for the night. I think it’s hilarious to look for birthday cards for fathers that don’t mention love.. Card makers presume that the people buying these cards actually like their fathers.
     
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    Hellllo haven't been here in a while. It's good to be back here and I think I might appreciate help once again, when I am ready to write things down

    heh
     
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    Honestly thinking about how I need/would love more internet friends. Though I find the act of talking to people online quite easy, I have always found forming actual friendships to be much more difficult online than in real life. Maybe it’s because it’s harder to gauge someone’s feelings and true personality when you can only see text on a screen.
     
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    How come I'm so extremely tired all the time but I just can't sleep. I seem to have something like a 36 hour sleep cycle. It's like I'm in Nightshift mode all the time and I can't get anything done because I will wake every one in the house up :-/ So frustrating!
     
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    Bit of a low one today, also feeling a little lonely today :pensive: but that is fine because it's pizza time :yum:
     
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    I love my dog. Until she forgets she’s supposed to be house trained and decides to do her business right in front of my bedroom door. Then I have to clean it up because she’s my dog. We usually lock her up at night but now she scratch’s at the baby gate blocking her in because my mother taught her if she does that we’ll let her back in to the kitchen. If she poops in the kitchen I will not clean it up.
     
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    Looking forward to my lunch break, I only have another 16 minutes!
     
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    My mom died yesterday. What am I supposed to be now?
     
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    I dream I come out to some of my friends, and I thought "wow I can't believe it's really happening, it feels like a dream but no, it's reality ! I'm so glad I finaly did it!"
    It was wierd to wake up after this.
     
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    I wonder how dumb it would be to move about an hour away from the city. The rent is soooo cheap (for surprisingly beautiful apartments) out there. 2 bedroom apartments for the price of a sketcky 1 bedroom in the city. But if I wanted to go back into the city, thats an 1.5-2 hour commute. Honestly, the last several months 99% of the time I've left the house has been to go for a walk. Hmmm
     
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    My dad is dying and will likely be gone within the next couple of days. I thought this would be a roller coaster of emotions but it's really been more of a slow burn.

    He's battled cancer for the last year and a half and now at the end the treatments destroyed his liver and kidneys. I had to come to grips with the fact that while he's been a beligerrent, abusive asshole my entire life he's my beligerrent, abusive asshole. What I feel more than anything right now is regret that there are no new opportunities to make new positive memories.
     
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    It can be extremely hard losing a parent, regardless of how your relationship was.

    While that is super shitty and unfair, I'm sure you did the best you could, considering the situation and dynamic <3
     
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    Turned 23 on Friday. For some reason, turning this age, makes me feel like I’m really an adult now.
     
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    I’m super lonely but have zero motivation to go out into the world. I’m an introvert but I need a group for introverts where we can hang out together but not socialise a lot. I need online friends I don’t actually have to see.
     
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    My first ever apartment viewing was.....a floop.

    If you're gonna make the tenant pay heat& electric, you should maybe say in the ad that it's electric heating (which is significantly more expensive that the typical gas heating). Or that you charge a $25/month laundry fee (so you can do laundry on a specific day at a specific time). Or that you charge a $60/month hot water tank fee.

    I get trying to lure more people in to a viewing, but in the end you just waste a ton of people's time that can't afford an extra $400 in hidden fees.

    At least it's apartment hunting practice I guess?
     
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    Started reminiscing over my childhood, while doing my presentation about my family tree and looked at a picture of me younger. I do seem very tomboyish, with short blond hair. I also started noticing that the signs of me liking women have always been there, just always hidden. Why do I started seeing it only now?