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What are you thinking?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Mirko, Feb 28, 2017.

  1. Canterpiece

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    *Sigh*

    I wish I were in a coffee shop right now, on a date with a cute woman and we could talk about our interests together. The sun shining with a little drizzle raining down from the sky. Calm music playing throughout the shop. The world, in that moment, in that place is finally peaceful. I'd be thinking about my upcoming classes and telling her about my friends. She'd tell me about hers. We'd walk the streets together, laughing and everything is back to normal. People are mulling about everywhere. Life finally feels stable. I'd no longer be thinking about someone that probably isn't thinking about me. Someone that I don't even know, not really- not properly.
     
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    Kinda creeped out, just got a random email from someone I don't know asking where I am. My email would be pretty hard for anyone to find.
     
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    Sometimes I regret signing up for college. Not so much because of the cost or difficulty (it's actually really easy), but rather because of the instructors who enforce group work. Is it really that hard to comprehend that some people despise the idea of human contact? At least the quarantine managed to tone it down a bit. But still, damn you extroverts, damn you straight to hell.
     
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    ♫I want to go back to Michigan, to dear Ann Arbor town
    Back to Joe’s and the Orient, and back to some of the money I spent
    I want to go back to Michigan, to dear Ann Arbor town
    I want to go back, I’ve gotta go back
    To Mee-shee-gan

    Oh Father and Mother pay all the bills
    And we have all the fun
    In the friendly rivalry of college life, Hooray!
    And we have to figure a helluva lot
    To tell what we have done
    With the coin we blew at dear ole' Michigan♫
     
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    I'm pretty sure someone from the internet stalked (for years) and tried to kill me. I'm living in an episode of the twilight zone.
     
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    If this goes on, I wonder if I can ever meet someone I like again. I'm the type who slowly develops real interest over time, even if the person isn't "objectively" attractive. Oh well I'm not planning to marry anyway. (Not that life always goes the way you want but..)
     
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    We'd been promised for a while that there would be male same-sex couple on my favourite TV show. Am I wrong to feel a bit sad about this? This show has always viewed gay men as a joke and I was really looking forward to some positive representation. First world problem but still not what I wanted to read.

    Positive of the day - Scotland mostly back to normal in 3 weeks! Light at the end of the tunnel. :slight_smile:
     
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    Being an introvert myself, I had to smile reading over your post. Can definitely relate. :slight_smile:
     
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    A friend posted a funny Lord of the Rings meme the other day and I was reminded that Sam and Frodo are hella bisexual. :wink:

    I'll be honest I always liked those two hobbits' close relationship, and while some thought it was weird that at the end Sam hops off the Frodo train and marries a woman, you know, not everyone's *gay*. Bi people exist even in the Shire!
     
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    I'm thinkin' about how to gain courage to proceed with my little... "project." I feel strong in that matter that I manage to open up myself towards important people in my life of bein' trans MtF. Right now, there's two co-workers (one in particular) that I feel safe workin' with and have an awesome time with. I'd like to tell her since she seems to be a very open-minded girl with a heart of gold. She and another co-worker have clearly shown that they're open to the LGBTQ+ community so it temptens me to tell 'em... despite that I feel like I never seem to gather enough courage to do so, and I don't know why. Try to compare with the ones in my past, that moment just has to come when the time is right (sry to sound cheese-ish but I'm a huge fan of cheese so... deal with it, haha;P^^) Anyhow, puns-buns side, I've been carryin' a temptin' feelin' to tell 'em (specially since our last after work we've had) but turns out that I don't carry enough courage as I have temptation atm:stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: So, I'm thinkin' at the moment: How to gather courage and when will the time come when I decide to tell??

    (sorry sorry, gomenasai for a long post but I'm an overthinker and I rather wants to write directly from my heart than compose bit by bit via my mind so my message becomes more direct(A) Overthinger = Lots of thoughts, usually longer ones:wink: )
     
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    Can't sleep and sleeping alone is weird, today's gonna be a long day. lol
     
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    Thanks Dominos - your website always crashes when I reach payment, always fine until then.

    I shouldn't be stressed out over a bloody pizza. FFS.
     
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    So...I was going though my old ex-friend's social media. Stalking through internet is not something to be proud of, but hey, it's what she put up in public. The last time I talked to she was super willing to get into education. Years later she's trying to enter the field I'm struggling to get motivated.

    It feels like a smack in the face.
     
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    I tried to post about this but couldn’t so:

    There is this thing going around a certain social media video app, and they keep talking about a “coming out box”. However, I’ve been out for six years and have never heard of this. So please educate me...what is a coming out box? And where do people get one because I’m checked Etsy and the World Wide Web and cant find any mention of them lol. Am I just not gay enough? What is going on!?
     
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    First time I’m hearing of it.
     
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    is that like a "loot box" with prizes you get after you come out? cause.... i'd kinda like one
     
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    How many arguments do I need to have with one person before pulling the plug and ceasing all contact?
     
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    What is the correct definition of love?!!
     
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    With the way everything sounds, going back to work in that kind of environment is going to be difficult.
     
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    I love spending time with my cousin.