I’m curious how the community sees guys like me. TBH, I’m after one thing and it’s not a relationship. I started on CL and met a local guy. He was after one thing too. It went well until for a bit. I try ###### but find myself wanting to talk more out of lonliness and because I’m afraid of people not being who they say and something physically bad happening. So there is a spa in town and I’ve gone a few times. Never anyone I have fallen head over heels for really, but I settle most times for some fun. I’m not athletic or an outstanding picture of beauty, but I look good and in good shape.
There are gay guys who seem to think its tasteless to use bath houses to have sex with random strangers. I say its much better than just inviting a guy from an app to your house like he's a pizza to fill you up when you're feeling horny. At least a sauna is a mutual location. And it's better than going to a gay bar or club. It's less expensive, I don't have to worry about what I'm wearing, the music is not too loud, and there are no women getting under my feet.
