I'm positive i'm bi, because i have both sexual and emotional attraction to both sexes but there's still something that confuses the hell out of me. I can't actually be sexually attracted to another guy unless i also have an emotional connection with him. I can enjoy the female figure without actually being in "love" with them but i don't enjoy a nice big package but unless it's on someone i care about i couldn't care less.
Perhaps you lean more to the heterosexual end of the sexuality spectrum, but more towards the homo-romantic end of the romantic spectrum? In other words, you have a sexual preference for women, but a romantic/relationship preference towards men?
It's not that i'm not sexually attracted to men at all, it's just that i prefer to build up a relationship instead i jump into the sex right away. Has anyone else gone through anything like this after discovering you were bi, gay, or whatever? I can still fall in love with a girl too, so it's not like i'm only attracted to them for their bodies.
Well, I suppose I would be willing to experiment with a girl (provided I were not in a relationship) but I wouldn't do a relationship with her. Where as with men I'm really more sexually and romantically interested. I kind of doubt that helped...
Yes I have been through the same. Men are good at sex but (that's kind of how men and women are built unfortunately lol)I have no desire to be in a relationship with them at all. Girls do both for me. With guys I just wanted sex and affection. With girls I want meaningful relationships that include sex and affection in the long run rather than sex right away. Although I am capable of that with a girl too
I really need to learn to proof read my posts. What i meant to say was "but i don't enjoy a nice big package unless it's on someone i care about, otherwise i couldn't care less.
How long did it take you to finally get a clear picture about your sexuality? I just feel like i'm going completely insane trying to figure this out.
