I am so trapped in my straight life. So very trapped. I don't see a way out. In a sexless marriage to a man who seems content with it somehow, and I have no reason to suspect him of cheating. Divorce is just not possible now, for various reasons, including financial. I don't see any fix in the near future. I wish there was a support group I could join for older lesbians feeling trapped in straight marriages. I could really use friends in the (older) LGBTQ community, but I have no idea how to do this.