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Top or Bottom?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Menaki-Neko, Jan 12, 2015.

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Top, or bottom?

  1. Full Top

    9 vote(s)
    5.8%

  2. Full Bottom

    21 vote(s)
    13.5%

  3. Versatile

    75 vote(s)
    48.1%

  4. Don't Know

    45 vote(s)
    28.8%

  5. I don't participate in any sort of anal sex (If you're a virgin, select Don't Know)

    6 vote(s)
    3.8%
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  1. Black Raven

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    I am kind of an exclusive top, but I could be convinced to bottom maybe as a birthday gift for my boyfriend or something.

    It's not that I dislike anal stimulation, it's more that... I just never feel like taking it.
     
    #21 Black Raven, Jan 12, 2015
  2. ChameleonSoul

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    I'm a virgin (voted Don't Know) but I pretty sure that I'm versatile.
     
    #22 ChameleonSoul, Jan 12, 2015
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    I like trains.
     
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    Virgin, but I'm pretty sure I'm versatile with a general preference for bottom.
     
    #24 Buttermilk, Jan 12, 2015
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    Closer to the front of the train then :wink:
     
    #25 raiden04, Jan 12, 2015
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    For me the answer is this ^
     
    #26 DeviantAttitude, Jan 12, 2015
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    How to train your dragon(s). :roflmao:
     
    #27 Black Raven, Jan 12, 2015
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    By harnessing and riding it; or so it seems.
     
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    Virgin, but I would guess versatile with an affinity for being on top.

    I'd guesstimate the ratio to be 80/100%.
     
    #29 EDMJunkie, Jan 12, 2015
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    Here's hoping you have more than one orgasm in your lifetime :wink: .

    Top. Both oral and anal.
     
    #30 howsit, Jan 12, 2015
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    Versatile, and I have no preference in being a top or bottom.
     
    #32 Daydreamer1, Jan 13, 2015
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    Ouch, wonder how that'll work out. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: :lol:
     
    #33 Quem, Jan 13, 2015
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    Bottom, Even my GF says I am. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
    #34 Steam Mecha, Jan 13, 2015
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    When I was in my relationship with my FWB, I was a total bottom. However, I had performance issues due to nerves. As a result, I am sure bottoming could have been enjoyed much better than it was.

    Also, two bottoms can have some fun with some of the same sensations at the same time. :wink: Not that I know from experience, but yeah..
     
    #35 QueerTransEnby, Jan 13, 2015
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    Bottom. The idea of topping just never appealed to me.
     
    #36 redneck, Jan 13, 2015
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    I chose I don't know since I'm still a virgin (yeah, yeah, I'm already 20 and still a virgin---that's Asian culture for y'all. It sucks.) But I can imagine how PAINFUL it is to bottom so hopefully, for my first sexual experience, I'll be a top.

    I'd only bottom if I'm sure that it will be a pleasurable experience depending on who's going to top me. LOL!
     
    #37 thevenerable, Jan 13, 2015
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    I'm a virgin and voted don't know, and I honestly don't know. lol

    The ideal of bottoming doesn't bother me, so I'll try it, but I don't know if I'll like it.
     
    #38 Absol, Jan 13, 2015
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    thevenerable, being a bottom should not be a painful experience. If it's painful, something is not going right, I think. =) It should be comfortable, and good. Not painful. =] It'll be up to your partner (and you) to be gentle, to make it enjoyable. :icon_bigg
     
    #39 Quem, Jan 13, 2015
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    just stick me anywhere in the middle :thumbsup:
     
    #40 kindy14, Jan 13, 2015
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