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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MOS KONIG, Mar 14, 2009.

  1. MOS KONIG

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    Have you ever been in a threesome relation(not in sexual way)?
     
  2. Miles D

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    not in a sexual way? you mean like a close group of three friends?
    yes...
    is that the question?
     
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    In a relationship sense, nah never.

    But I have always been curious!

    It would be a pretty great thing if you could get it to work.

    A 3way relationship would be really hard to maintain, preventing favorites and trying to keep everything balances and equal between 3 people would be really hard.

    I mean just think about sleeping!

    You can only really cuddle one person at a time, only one person can sleep in the middle, beds aren't really that big etc.
     
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    Like...

    A love triangle?
     
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    Hmm, not I don't think I have ever entertained that thought. I don't think I would ever be interested in being involved in one, however if it works for you, all the more power to you.

    I would prefer to have just one person who I can spend all my time with and be the one with, if you know what I mean? I think it would be impossible to keep no favourites, but good luck to you :slight_smile:
     
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    No I have not. However I have always wanted to be in a love trapezoid.
     
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    I never have been in a threesome sexual relationship, but I have lived a kind of threesome relationship when I was around 20.
    At that time two of my closest friends were starting dating (they have bee together for 6 years). I was more or less living with them (even if I had my own tiny flat). We were really really close, doing absolutly everything together, includind taking baths and sleeping in the same room (sometimes in the same bed). Thinking of it now, it was kind of strange. It only lasted few months, after I met my boyfriend and things slowly came back to the normal.
     
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    I never have, but I know the couple that would have the (sexual) threesome with me. A couple years ago the guy had a crush on me and kinda asked me out (it was a weird situation) and last month the girl (drunkenly) told a mutual friend of ours that she has a *lesbian crush* on me, even tho she's straight. I'm sure if I called them right now they'd be up for a threesome.
     
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    Somewhat, but it wasn't really a mutual three-way relationship, it's just that she had both me and another girl caught in her web, and we knew about each other.
     
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    I have thought about it, but I concluded that one of the people
    will end up feeling left out and it will ruin the system.
    A "Love-trapezoid" sounds more appealing to me (4 people).
     
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    Like a Love Triangle...
    -or-
    Like Polygamy?

    Well... either way, I haven't been involved in either.
     
  12. MOS KONIG

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    Like; A and B person loves C person. C person loves both of them. So, C person goes out with both of them at the same time. A and B are okay with it.
     
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    No and I would never allow myself to be in one, I'm Clingy and over protective, it just wouldnt work
     
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    i think i could do it.
    but then again i support open relationships.