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So unsure

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Yovella1113, Aug 23, 2014.

  1. Yovella1113

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    I know many people believe that it's better to not label yourself, but i'm the type that likes labels.

    I have no clue about my sexual orientation! Any advice?
     
  2. Fallingdown7

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    How is it that you feel in regards to attraction?
     
  3. Ditz

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    I came across an interesting website that helped me place things into perspective for myself:

    Am I Gay? A Guide for People who Question their Sexual Orientation

    I think it would have been easier for myself if I could have identified with either being straight or gay, but somehow I ended up somewhere in the confusing middle, the grey area, and I'm a white or black kinda guy, don't like grey areas... Go figure!

    It's an interesting read and maybe something that might give you a little more insight, hope it helps!
     
  4. Yovella1113

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    I so far have only been with men. Although i've found them attractive I was never sexually or emotionally satisfied, but I also know this could've just been because of the couple guys , not my sexual orientation.

    I find myself fantasising about being with another girl all the time although I have never been with one. At the same time the idea of it makes me slightly uncomfortable when I think about having sex with them.

    Basically I'm just completely confused. Sometimes I think i'm bi, sometimes I think I'm attracted to both, but can only be emotionally attracted to women, other times i think the opposite, or that i'm gay or straight but curious.
     
  5. Austin

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    I've said this on a few threads but there's a burning tent. Inside the burning tent is a penis and a vagina. You can only save one. Which is it?
     
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    ...Is it my penis? Because then I'd probably save that.
     
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