so how many "straight" white guys out there fantasize about black men

I kinda blame this one on porn about the whole black men with big penises obsession and the whole thug hunter crap .

 

People here get offended way too easily. I've seen black guys looking for white guys to fuck and black guys who get off on interracial sex just as much as white guys.

 

What offends them is that that some men only like them and want to sleep with them just based on their penises but if they didn't have that they wouldn't be interested in them or Plus they don't want relationships with them and only see them good for a fuck .
I can relate to this a bit not with race but with being lesbian my sexuality is a fetish to some straight men . So I can see why black men are offended and pissed .
Because outside the whole big penis thing , black men are told their unattractive and scary .

 

Is... This a thing?

 

Yes it's a thing .

 

Well I'd personally say those guys are bisexual, but with a preference for the other gender. The famous Kinsey has done a lot of work to show that many people aren't 'straight' or 'gay', but somewhere inbetween. A fairly simple test is here;

Kinsey Scale Test

And to answer your question, many guys do. A lot of 'straight' men are actually bisexual, but either don't realize, or will never admit it. Also! Since their preference is so heavily on females anyway, and they'd never date a male, for all intents and purposes they are straight... at least pragmatically.

 

Does anyone really hookup with someone for non-superficial reasons? What about having a fuckbuddy or friends with benefits -- someone you would sleep with but not necessarily date? What if I only wanted to sleep with another white guy because his penis was large -- or didn't want to sleep with another white guy because his penis was small. I bet nobody would throw a fit. And I don't recall the OP saying black men are unattractive and scary besides their penises...

 

Many people like to pretend they don't but I'm pretty show most people sleep with others superficial reasons . But saying you like a whole race or people of that race because they have big penises and making them fetish is offense . It would be one thing if you said I like that guy because he's handsome or he has a nice body but to say Oh I only will have sex with that group because they have a big penis and I want to have an orgasm but other than that I wouldn't date them is a offensive .

 

Damn right I'm offended, but doesn't surprise me that the point is being missed here pretty much(particularly the bolded; tsk tsk). Time to get of this nonsense train though, so I'll leave on that note.

 

Now Austin I agree with you on hooking up and a fuckbuddy is ok but when your and I'm not talking about you as a person but when a person 's attraction to a group of people in a certain race or reason for having sex with them , is not based on how attractive they find them,but just how big there penises are along or how they think there performance in bed will be that's fetishing a group of people in that race .
No one said it's wrong to like big penises , or to want casual sex .

 

Much like Stocking, I think that there's nothing wrong with hooking up. However, if your only interest in black guys is because you believe a black guy will have a bigger dick, that's a problem. Even if you're only looking for hookups (and aren't interested in relationships in general), hooking up with a black guy simply because you think he has a big dick means your interest in them is not based on how attractive he is.

If, on the other hand, you're interested in a relationship, but you're only interested in black guys for hookups, then you're just treating black people merely as an object of your fetish.

 

Nobody is offended that white men are attracted to black men. What's offensive is the depiction of black men as exotic toys up for consumption, without real human depth and clearly as nothing more than a fetish.

When we treat people like lingerie, there's undoubtedly a problem.

 

i think im guilty of this in the sense that I like black guys and im with a black guy.
I'm not saying its not problamatic but I do care about him for more then just his body though. Its definatly part of it but he's smart and compassionate and he means the world to me.

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I dont see him as an object. We talk on a regular basis amd he calls me all the time and i love hearong from him and knowing how he is doing and all of that.
I probably do fetishise him to some extent.
Not sure where that puts me.

 

This thread is old but not the subject. I am a white man, live as a straight man but once or twice a year I have an urge to have sex with another man. I had never considered being with a black man until setting up a date with a man I didn't realize was black. When standing face to face with him the elevated taboo level was enough to continue on with him. After that one encounter I prefer black men because so far they've all been amazing lovers, most of them do have very nice big dicks and because they're black, the taboo level for me is off the charts!

 

I do..but havent acted on it.