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So a few days ago I asked my date if she wanted to be my girlfriend

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Tigermud, Feb 21, 2020.

  1. Tigermud

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    I'm very happy with her reply.
    We're still talking and stuff.

    We both like each other clearly, so I thought I give it a go.

    so basically she told me that she has thought about "us together" but shes not ready for a relationship. She was glad I asked her.

    We had a very good time on our date.

    She just has stuff to sort out in life and i guess I do too.

    I was debating whether to ask her or not, still being early days. But like we are hitting it off so well.

    She didn't say no that's the positive. We've made a good understanding of our developing friendship.

    I feel like I've been talking to her for a long time. Like she's never really been a stranger.

    I believe we boarder-line act like a couple.

    I really want me and her to go well in the future. Hopefully something grows and it grows strong..
    Who knows who knows
     
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    Well congratulations for asking, and as you said, she didn't say no. Hopefully she will be able to sort the other stuff out so that you can make it official.
    Just make sure you keep communication open at all times.
     
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    Thanks
    We talk a lot .. it's annoying how we live in different counties . She's like 3hours from me. Meeting her was soooo worth the trip.
    But you know what they say "absence makes the heart grow fonder" lol in some cases, in this case I'm definitely fond of her. I miss her and can't wait to see her again.
     
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    Well long distance is a tough one. It doesnt mean it never works but it is never easy. For the moment enjoy the friendship you have and see where it goes from there.