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Snuggling

Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by MakingItWork, Jul 23, 2023.

  1. MakingItWork

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    It’s a long story. If you’re in a similar situation, I can share and empathize with your struggle.


    I am married. I am a mom.


    I very much would like to snuggle with another woman.


    The married part may seem abhorrent to many. I respect that.


    But maybe you’re married too. Maybe you can’t get out of it. Maybe you’ve tried to stay in it, tried to leave it, and cannot manage either. Perhaps it’s not what it seemed years ago. Maybe it’s more than just dissatisfaction.


    I’m hoping to connect — verbally first — with a woman who gets this.


    I want a woman friend who will talk to me about bisexual thoughts, and maybe snuggle with me.


    In a perfect world, a good start would be another mom, in her 30s, willing to talk about this.
     
  2. quebec

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    MakingItWork.....Hello and a great big LGBTQIA+ welcome to Empty Closets! :old_smile: I can remember the first post that I made on EC. I was desperate for help and I got the help that night that I so needed. I hope that we can help you in the same way that I received help. The most important thing to remember about Empty Closets is that we do care about you! We're very glad that you found us here on EC and hope that we can answer questions, give you support and provide a place to vent (as long as it's not violent!) :old_big_grin: when that becomes necessary!

    *****There are 18 different sub-forums here that you can check out and join in the conversations or start your own thread/conversation. When I first joined Empty Closets I was in need of a lot of support and encouragement and I found it here…EC is a safe place. I hope that you'll find good things here too! Folks here will talk to you and share...you don't have to be afraid of asking questions...we're glad to have you! Empty Closets is all about making connections and giving LGBT folks a voice when they otherwise don't have one in their day-to-day lives. In particular you may want to check out the forum that is titled "Sexual Orientation”, there are people there who may have dealt with some of the same kind of issues that could be challenging you.

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    *****Well, as I said, we're very glad you found us! :old_rolleyes: If you have any questions at all, you can always send me a Private Message.

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  3. Rayland

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    Hello and welcome to the EC! I hope you find what you're looking for. I wanted to let you know that EC is not a place for hook ups or meet ups or for flirting. EC is a place for support.
     
  4. MellowMel

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    Hello! Though I am not a mom, I wanted you to know you are not alone in your feelings. There are many like you out there that want the same. Don't give up, be honest with yourself!
     
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    Welcome, Makingit!
    There seem to be a number of bisexual women here, - not sure about moms tho - I'm sure they'll chime in when they see you here!
     
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    Hey you are definitely not alone. EC is not for hookups but I’m sure there are lots of people here willing to chat and support even if they are not in exactly the same position.