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Should I blow my straight friend?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by TheGermanAshton, Dec 6, 2014.

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  1. TheGermanAshton

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    Okay, thanks.
     
    #21 TheGermanAshton, Dec 7, 2014
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    I agree it's society and the whole manly thing .

    ---------- Post added 7th Dec 2014 at 03:10 PM ----------
    Sorry :icon_sad:
     
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  3. TheGermanAshton

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    :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    The film Deep Throat might be of some help.
     
    #24 soulcatcher, Dec 7, 2014
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    I'd say go for it if he's interested. Just make certain you both know and agree that it's completely no-strings-attached if he's straight and that it'll be a one-time thing if that's what he wants.
     
    #25 AwesomGaytheist, Dec 7, 2014
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    Gaytheist :grin: I love that name XD

    I'm just thinking of how I can try to bring this up, that's my whole thing. I'm not really worried about rejection, just how to bring it up. I'm thinking I bring up the subject again, and then ask something like "Have you got a BJ since we last spoke?" he will say no, and then I say "Do you want one, no strings attached?" Idk, that's about all I've thought of so far.
     
    #26 TheGermanAshton, Dec 7, 2014
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    Cringeworthy tactic. Why won't you just get handcuffs and...
     
    #27 soulcatcher, Dec 8, 2014
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    lol. That's all I've to say. Just, lol.
     
    #28 TheGermanAshton, Dec 8, 2014
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    My one friend is straight and engaged to a woman he's been living with for quite some time and one time I was over at his house and she was sitting there along with him and another friend of mine, and I don't know how the topic came up (this was years ago), but I know there was no alcohol or other impairing substances involved and the conversation totally led into him saying "Well, you can blow me if you want," (he was being sincere) and his fiance swooned and said "Oh my God, that would be so hot to watch, do it!" And my other friend just sat in the corner egging me on along with the fiance to do it but I didn't and I kind of regret not doing it...

    ...just tossing that out there.
     
    #29 Benway, Dec 8, 2014
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    The only thing I'm struggling with is how to bring the topic back up and ask him. I'm so nervous thinking about how I'm going to do it :/
     
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    Why do you regret not doing it? If you were embarassed and didn't want other people watching you, then surely it was the right decision to keep your dignity.
     
    #31 soulcatcher, Dec 8, 2014
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    I wasn't embarrassed at all, in no way am I ashamed of my body and I love being looked at and I was totally turned on by the idea of doing it right then and there but I was younger and more reserved... In retrospect I really wish I'd done it.
     
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    That's fine then.
     
    #33 soulcatcher, Dec 8, 2014
  14. Benway

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    To the OP: You gotta make your own decision, I don't know how old you are or what your life is like but ultimately it's up to you to do what you think you wanna do. I was just throwing my two cents in.
     
    #34 Benway, Dec 8, 2014
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