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Sexuality as a trans man?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Bring it, Jul 25, 2017.

  1. Bring it

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    Gender:
    Male (trans*)
    Gender Pronoun:
    He
    Sexual Orientation:
    Bisexual
    Out Status:
    Some people
    I'm wondering how to approach sexual interactions as a trans-guy. I'm almost 17 and bisexual, but I've never had sex. I want to be prepared for when I get the chance.

    When talking with someone who may want to have sex, how should I frame the fact that I'm trans? My friend is buying me a strap-on and harness for my birthday, so I can have sex pretty much as any cis guy could, but I don't know how to explain this to a potential sexual partner, especially if they are only sexually attracted to males and have an expectation of "real" penis. It's worth noting that I have no issue with casual sex and so this is more likely to come up in a situation where the person doesn't know I'm trans in advance.