Fellas, have any of you truly been in love with a woman before? I've been in love with three women before and have been sexually and emotionally attracted to them. I know this is a weird question for a first time post and my apologies. I'm trying to figure out my sexuality and I'm currently married. I love my wife, she turns me on sexually, I get turned thinking of having children with her, just the nature of her turns me on. I'm also questioning my sexuality and this is tough. Just needed to get that out there.
I have never been head-over-heals in love with a woman, but have been several times with men. Sexually I have never had the level of attraction to or enjoyment with women that I have had with men. I was married for nine years to a woman.
Yes, I've been truly in love with my spouse which is why I married her. I actually still love her but now its different. Since I've come, I look at her more of as a family member that I love, but not attracted to.
I'm truly in love with my wife. This included a pretty robust sex life for a lot of years...not so much since she went through menopause. But, I continue to be attracted to her and love her in a romantic way. I also have a boy friend who I love in a different way. Our sex life is incredible. My feelings for him are less romantic although we do "make love" sometimes. Most of the time it is more of a friends with benefits feeling.
I have been married 33 years and do love my wife. Sexually though has always been an issue. I never have experienced the rush I di with men prior to marriage. Now my wife and I are not having sex nor have we for about 10 years.
In retrospect since coming I have realized I never really loved the women in my life my ex wife and ex girlfriend. At least not like the total love I have for my now boyfriend. Same with sex, never knew total sexual satisfaction until I was with my bf.