Prom After-Party

to me, it sounds like hes a tad confused too. if you dont want to drink, dont drink. if it looks like hes having too much, ask him to slow down at least. that would make a great story for fictionpress (thank you very much, by the way) , but could lead to a very bad situation.

i would ask him if you could go to the after party together. not "together" like together, but "together" like not alone.

as this is you first post, i would like to say welcome to ec (*hug*).

im gonna go write that story now...

 

i think you should go and see what happens.

also, like amyleona said, don't drink if you don't want to.

and, remember, have fun!

 

To me, it's almost obvious that he's trying to give you a lot of signals. Like him? Go for it!

 

Oh, he's really trying hard. Poor guy.
Do you like him? If so, let him know. "I know you're going to think this is weird, but I'm gay, and I kinda like you". It works well to make yourself a little bit vulnerable (at least for me). At the very least you'll have an ally. At the most you'll have a bf. And don't drink unless you want to, there's a lot of fun to be had while still sober

 

I agree with Noah. Just be open and honest with him. It doesn't sound like you have anything to lose.

As far as the drinking goes, don't give into peer pressure. I learned that the hard way. I eventually got to a point where I really didn't want to drink even when I was around my friends. It's all a matter of will power. If you really don't want to drink, it's up to you to make sure you don't want to drink.

 

I'm a little confused as to why your prom is in September, and why it's on a Thursday.

But, it seems to me that he's into you.

I vote you go. Also, drink or not, it doesn't really matter. But if he's drinking, he'll be more open and he may come out to you (the only time I came out I was drunk, tho I had been considereing telling him for a while).

 

He's sooooo into you. SO OBVIOUS.
go to the after party, have a drink if ya feel like it.
or don't.

and then do him. use a condom! ;]

 

Drinking is fun if you are smart about it and with people you trust.

He is not someone you should trust. Don't drink at the party, in fact, don't even drink anything unless it's from a closed can or bottle(Not beer). This reminds me of a similar situation with one of my friends who thought it would be fun as the guy said, but she ended being date raped. The guy was sober and people at the party said she was falling over all over the place. I'm not saying this is sure to happen, but it's better to be safe then sorry.

 

Only drink if you want to. Forcing yourself to or not to could easily ruin a special occasion.

I agree with Noah. Be upfront; you have very little to lose and a whole lot to gain.

Making assumptions does nothing but get you in trouble, always best to ask and clarify.



BTW...

Any tips or clues as to what's happening at your prom and afterparty?!

I'm in charge of organising ours and all I have so far is the venue, date and a budget. American Prom would be a coool theme, any tips from ANYONE would be appreciated (sorry for going OT).

 

Good luck!

And thanks

 

He's such a frickin liar. I wouldn't believe for a second.
Ten bucks said if you made a move, he wouldn't stop you. ;x

 

^ heres a shocker ^

i agree

 

i was distracted from everything else cause of this....
jk
don't drink tis bad,

 

I third. I think he was just scared to admit it, or maybe he wasn't prepared
for you to be so direct. He was so giving you signs, don't give up
quite yet. Plus, he said that he's bi, so there's a start. Be optimistic,
I'm sure your prom will ROCK :icon_wink (whether or not anything happens.
just go and have fun, and if anything does happen, then that's great,
but don't expect it).

Keep us updated...

 

I think it's great that you were able to be honest with him. That's what life is all about... so good for you. He may or may not be bi or gay, and he may or may not be coming on to you. But at least he's accepting, and willing to be someone that you can talk to.

Congrats!

 

I kinda agree with the above, but I kinda disagree as well.
He said he's bi, but that he didn't like it with a guy... now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying you should back away from him, just be careful and try not to get involved.

Twenty bucks so you wait until HE makes the first move.
You said you liked him, ball's in his court now. It's up to him.

That is, if you want anything more than 'fooling around'...