Hi! I'm a virgin woman (18yo) and I like to masturbate with a vibrating bullet. The problem is that I just don't manage to have a "proper" orgasm, even when what I'm doing feels really good. I use lube, I listen to music, the conditions are perfect etc... But when my stomach tightens and I feel like I'm about to lose control (like you're holding back peeing) the pleasure is literally too much and I can't go further. I've had small, very quick orgasms that really did feel like peeing (sorry for the imagery), but I can't get the tension-releasing, slow-build kind that is supposed to make you feel deeply satisfied after... What can I do to overcome that "barrier" when it becomes too much? Could it be a psychological effect, or is there a technique I should use? Sorry for the long post and the awful descriptions :/
