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Post what you find attractive

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by angel626, Oct 20, 2013.

  1. angel626

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    We are all different so because of that I've always been interested on what other people find attractive; physically & personality wise.
    So here's your chance to post what you like.

    Physically I like:
    -Girls with tattoos
    -Piercings: Eyebrow, Lips, Ear, Navel
    -Dimples
    -Blue/Hazel eyes
    -Brunette/Blond/Red hair
    -Big Smiles
    -Medium/Tall girls

    Personality I like:
    -Confident yet shy at times
    -Decisive
    -Independent
    -Blunt
    -Adventurous
    -Witty
    -Courteous
    -Modest
    -Funny
    -Easy Going
    -Intellectual
    -Kind with some attitude
    *so much more I can go on forever*
     
  2. Argentwing

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    (this list is gender-neutral as much as I can make it)

    Demure attitude

    big vocabulary *correctly used :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    confidence in appearance/flattering style

    little bit of shyness

    *enthusiasm*. Stars for this one because it's probably most important. Doesn't matter what for, but care about it deeply and powerfully.

    some sort of creativity

    video game talent :slight_smile:

    ^^Those are some general things that I find really appearing. I tried not to touch too much on looks other than what a person can readily control, of course.
     
  3. Ruby Dragon

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    Physical appearance:

    Tall and stocky (not muscular, just big build, a slight beer belly is also nice)
    Dark hair
    Clean shaven face
    Good basic grooming/hygiene
    Nice smile
    Any colour eyes, as long as they won't wander :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    Personality-wise:

    Honest
    Faithful (in every sense of the word)
    Considerate
    Loving
    Sincere
    Respectful
    Friendly
     
  4. Owen

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    Physically:
    Big bellies
    Beards
    Long hair
    Glasses
    If he's blond, or especially a red-head, that'll get my attention. :slight_smile:
    Light body hair
    Did I mention big bellies?
    Because I really like big bellies.

    Personality:
    Being comfortable in his own skin.
    Being low-key.
    For better or worse, I have a history of being attracted to guys who come off as intellectually aloof.
    Being able to carry on a conversation about substantial topics
    Having similar tastes in music to mine, or being able to introduce me to new music I like
    A dry sense of humor
     
  5. DrkRayne

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    Physically:
    Dark hair
    Light eyes
    Not too skinny not obese
    Professional in appearance

    Personality:
    Humorus...can find almost anything funny
    Confident
    Slight Bitch (I love it)
    Little bit of arrogance

    I have always found the villains/crazy women attractive. I have no idea why. I've been with same woman the last 3 years and i am hoping she isnt a villian..because I really love her :slight_smile:
     
  6. Jeneric

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    Funny, smart, independent, non-clingy with tatts. I LOVE rockabilly girls.
     
  7. chercheur

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    Physically:

    -Soft dark hair
    -Blue eyes and expressive eyes (where you see emotion in them)
    -Lighter/fairer skin
    -Thin (but not TOO thin), some muscle is good, but, again not too much (like insanely cut is unnattractive). Body types not soo important as long as they are a normal weight (not over, not under)
    -Pretty smile

    Personality:

    Somewhat shy/bashful/quiet
    Loving/affectionate
    Willing to share emotions
    Good sense of humor, but not over the top; more like subtle, quiet wit
    Generally kind and sweet, with a somewhat subdued personality
     
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  8. arcchi

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    Personality
    - Funny
    - Any kind of smartness (not just academic)
    - A weird personality (well... i cant explain that)
    - Have something in commun with me (music, tv, book taste)
    - Have lot of thinks different from me (what take the above topic smaller)

    I dont really look for physical things when i have a seriously crush (people get prettier when i know theirs personalities)... But,
    Physically
    - Glasses people
    - Skinny body (just for girls, in boys i dont mind)
    - The clothes style (it call me a lot of attention)
     
  9. inmyfantasy

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    This is not specified toward any gender... although I should probably say that I'm usually only attracted to guys if they're particularly feminine...

    Physically
    - Smaller build, slight figure
    - Delicate hands
    - Babyish facial features
    - Long and natural looking hair, esp. a lighter blonde or red color
    - Freckles
    - No makeup

    Personality
    - Shy and sweet
    - Quick and easy to laugh and smile
    - Generally positive attitude
    - Some form of intelligence
    - A little quirky, unique
    - Able to keep a conversation going, because I'm not so good at that...
     
  10. Xochipilli

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    Physically:
    Average, slim or muscular (not picky)
    Must have perky, round glutes
    Veiny hands/arms
    Prefer body hair :slight_smile:love:slight_smile:
    Interesting nose
    Don't care about skin/hair/eye color, but tall dark and handsome = swoon
    Prominent Adam's apple

    Personality:
    Not sure. Not into rowdy though.
     
  11. QueerQueen

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    Don't know why but I have always been attracted to girls with long brunette hair or black.
    Any color of eyes as long as they are nice to look at
    I like a little bit of mystery
    Glasses if they suit the person
    Tattoos are always a plus, at least to a limit
    Average size with some curves c:
    Someone who has a nice smile and does it often, dimples are a plus
    I'm very, very attracted to cute girls

    This doesn't really go with either personality or physical appearance, but I like when a girl has a nice voice.

    Girls who can make me laugh
    Someone who can hold a conversation
    Intelligence in any area
    Honesty
    Someone who is sweet and affectionate
    Adventurous, always fun to hang out with
    Someone who likes to go out and have fun with friends and also likes to be alone with me
    A hugger
    Someone who can be a little bit aggressive is something I find extremely sexy
    A girl who is independent and has her own views on life
    Someone who I can feel comfortable with
     
  12. Hrantou

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    I really don't have a list. I'm not picky when it comes to people or partners. All it really comes down to is:

    1. Don't be a dick/douche
    2. Be honest
    3. If you can make me laugh, extra points
    4. If you can make me feel fuzzy inside, many extra points :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
  13. Awkward Balloon

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    I've never really developed am emotional crush, so the personality list will be very short.
    Personality:
    -Intelligent, able to challenge me.
    -Sharp, as in quick humour.
    -Charming.
    -Slightly distant in behaviour.
    -Very dominant.
    Or
    -Equally as passive as myself.

    Physically:
    -Well defined jaw.
    -Broad, strong shoulders.
    -Big chest, with good pecs.
    -Stubble.
    -Shadowed eyes.
    -Deep voice.
    -Short hair (head).
    -Little body hair, but arm hair is necessary.

    I guess that's enough for now. Just some of the things I find attractive.
     
  14. jami13llp1993

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    For girls:
    -red hair
    -green/blue/grey eyes
    -Short/mediem height
    -tattoos
    -Pretty face
    -average to skinny body
    -pretty smile

    -confidence
    -sense of humor
    -open minded

    For men:
    -red/brown/blonde/black short hair
    -muscles
    -light eyes
    -nice face

    -Cofident
    -sweet
    -calm
    -caring
    -Protective
     
  15. BornInTexas

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    i find body hair, facial hair, chubbyness, and stockiness attractive phsyically, while personality wise goofiness, intelligence, geekiness, and expressiveness is attractive to me. :grin:
     
  16. TheUglyBarnacle

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    Appearance:
    -A beautiful smile. That's what usually gets me.
    -Black women are the most gorgeous imo.
    -Red or blonde (or some crazy colour like blue) for white girls (especially if they have a light skintone with freckles)
    -Glasses are a bonus.
    -Piercings, too.
    -Ass..pretty self-explanatory..

    Personality:
    -Assertive
    -A bit bitchy :3
    -Can hold a meaningful conversation even if we are in disagreement
    -Open-minded
     
  17. AmityRanch

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    Physically
    Older (30-35 age range) *
    Taller (6'0 and up) *
    Shaved head
    A Few Extra Pounds *
    Formal Clothes

    Personality
    Witty/Dark sense of humor
    Relatively Outgoing
     
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  18. Rivers

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    Physically
    -Smaller than or the same size as me
    -Glasses
    -Short hair, but still feminine
    -Long hair works, too, though
    -Nice smile
    -Described as "unconventionally pretty"

    Personality
    -Reserved
    -Sweet
    -Responds well to my attempts at chivalry
    -Doesn't hurt me