Plans / resolutions for 2014?

1.) Smile
2.) I feel you.

 

- Come to terms with my health issues and lose the associated envy of others' health
- Be more laid back and less anxious
- Sleep more

Hope everyone has a good Christmas.

 

--Come out to my family
--Explore this life I have never known
--Continue losing weight and caring about my health
--Find love...or at least date some people
--have my own place in the city
--have a job...it sucks not having one after 3 years of working non-stop
--be way more independent
--Continue to try and be an honorable human being.

 

so you are exploring the idea of jumping back into the closet?

 

I'm actually in Texas right now (used to live in New England), and at least in the cities people are perfectly accepting. I hear horror stories from friends who came out of small towns in TX, but there are many parts of TX where you can be out and have it be great.


I'm in college so here are my goals...

Lose virginity (I just don't care anymore. Sex shouldn't be a big deal, and I want to lose it before I turn 19)
Come out to family
Slut it up more (I know, I know, I'll be safe, I just want to make sure I experiment while I have the chance, so that when I do find a guy who would be a good boyfriend I'm ready)
Spend more time learning and not just going for the grade
Expand social circle, and meet people from different circles

 

ive heard that DALLAS has a huge LGBT community ?

the rent in California is just to freaking high and I feel like im going to have a roommate forever

 

Austin Texas does

 

2014 is going to be the best year of my life...this is where it gets interesting..

 

1.) I don't know how...I don't really know how to explain it. If someone makes me laugh, or I'm genuinely happy I can smile no trouble, but I can't make myself smile. My brain can't figure out how to perform the action on command...I have this blank expression on my face that's just like stuck there...It sucks, but I can't really do much about it -.-'

2.) I'm so glad someone does

 

1) I plan on trying to run several times a week and maybe prepare for another half marathon in the spring and run a full one in the fall.

2) Come out to my father and maybe actually try to find someone to date once I go back to school in the fall.

 

I actually need to get out and start running or something. I could use a bit of exercise these days

 

Leave my wife and continue to be a good dad.

Meet a guy and lose my gay virginity.

 

There's just one resolution for me. To start over. I just want to start my life over again, hit a reset button. I'm gonna work on getting my life together now that I'm finally away from my family I'm just gonna live my life.

 

At least get a brief start on Transitioning.

 

I hope you find happiness next year!!(&&&)

 

1. Apply to at least one job a day
2. Budget money well... hope to be fully independent by 2015
3. I guess I went to a gay 'event' this year. Let's say do 2 gay things in 2014? lol
^ eta: oh and to do #3 sober, and preferably free

LOL. If you figure that one out please share. People used to say I have a frown/ look mean - though I haven't heard that recently hmmm

 

Sounds like solid advice

 

- Come out to the last few people I need to.
- work out, lose 10-20 pounds.
- meet some gay guys.

 

-To stop hiding who I am
-Stop trying to please my family and be the person I want to be
-Get a job

 

Gain enough weight to be in the "healthy" zone.

Get closer to being mentally healthy.

Maybe make an irl friend or two

Eat 25+ pepperoni pizzas. (counterproductive to achieving a "healthy" weight, but something I want bragging rights to)

Pass all my classes.