How did you get over your internalized homophobia/transphobia? While I've gotten over the intellectual side of homophobia/transphobia and have always believed gender stereotypes don't define us, I still feel the emotional unease and repulsion around people who don't fit a hetero-gender-binary (like butch women and non-binary persons) and I don't know how to get over that. It's hard to be authentic or know who I am, if I'm phobic of who I am.
It might not be possible right now due to lockdown measures, etc., but might be worth talking to a therapist about this and working through what’s behind this? Can you pinpoint what makes you uneasy?
