So, I met this girl on an online dating site...spent a lot of time talking on the phone/ texting, but I didn't tell her until we met in person that I was married (to a guy) and have always been in relationships with guys, and have never even kissed a girl. She was shocked at first, and suggested I wasn't a lesbian. But we talked (a lot!), had a really great day last weekend, spent five hours together just hanging out etc.....now we're going out again tonight! Umm....pretty sure she is into me...she's very open/upfront and told me so. It feels totally normal and not awkward at all....so...I guess I AM into girls! (my friends still doubt me, and say "Well how do you KNOW if you've never been with a woman?" Yeah, sometimes you just know... Thought I'd share...thanks for all the support on this board!