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Obsessed with crush's private parts.

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by foreveralo, Mar 19, 2018.

  1. foreveralo

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    My crush has this cute bulge that is always catching my attention. I don't know, I do not look at his crotch intentionally but every now and then, I catch a glimpse and wonder if he prefers wearing loose boxers or if he packs a big member down there. The fact that my crush is utterly cute and always smells so good, makes me imagine a lot. Sometimes I find myself wondering if I could ask him to show me his private parts. I have only once shown and seen private parts with a friend a long time ago when I was in junior high.
    I know, at the end of the day, all guys have pretty much the same thing regardless of size and shape. But HOW DO I STOP MYSELF from fantasizing? Sometimes I get very aroused if I realize that he is hard too. It does sound ridiculous but I need advice on how to stop my mind from going there?
     
  2. smurf

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    Welcome to puberty! Where the fun never stops lol

    Yeah, sadly its one of those things that you just have to get through. Enjoy for what it is, keep fantasies fantasies, and jack off later. Sorry bud
     
  3. Destin

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    So this won't work unless you two are really good friends already and he's very open minded, but there is actually a way you could see it without looking totally gay to him. I've never shared this story before, but in 10th grade one of my really good friends I've known for years was obsessed with porn - like he mentioned it almost every day kind of obsessed. We were hanging out and playing video games in his room and he started talking about porn as usual - describing a video he liked, and as you'd expect he got an erection talking about it.

    It was pretty obvious but we had been friends so long it didn't bother me (we both liked girls, I didn't know I liked guys yet). He knew I noticed so he just straight-up asked me if I'd be cool with it if he looked up the video and masturbated to it even though I was there. I was fine with it, I was a teen guy too so I understood once the urge started it was hard to get rid of it any other way and I didn't care if he did. So he started jerking off but the porn was on so it got me turned on too, which he noticed. He said he was cool with it if I wanted to do it too and the whole thing was already weird so I just was like screw it and masturbated to it also. Neither of us ever thought the other was gay because of it, it was just two dudes watching naked girls together.

    So if your crush is a really good friend you could try the same type of thing he did, just invite him over and at some point talk about porn and look up the video and invite him to jerk off to it with you (only if he agrees to let you though, don't just whip out your dick and start going at it without asking him - that'd be messed up).
     
    #3 Destin, Mar 19, 2018
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