Ok so life happens rly fast and this is another example. I started talking to a guy about a week ago that I’m interested in. He’s nice and cute and kind. Then last night, I started talking to another guy. He’s extremely hot, chaotic, seems like a handful and an adventure, but not looking for a committed relationship rn(he’s also currently living with his ex and did porn. Neither of which bother me too might I add) . I’m just at a loss? I love talking to the first guy and we even had a date planned this weekend until I got covid. The other person I p much just talk abt horny stuff with 24/7 . The first guy tonight just asked me if I’m talking to anyone else. I said yes because I maybe stupidly wanted to be honest. And when he asked when I make a decision I said when I’m in a serious or committed relationship. Ik none of u can make this decision for me but I’ve never been in a committed relationship. Or just had loads of “fun” with someone. If this were happening at separate times I’d love to do both but I can’t. The hot chaotic guy is going on a trip next week and won’t be back for a week. I figured I could go on a date with the first guy and see if there’s a spark there. But I just don’t know what to do? I genuinely like both options and. I don’t know. I was hoping for some thoughts , opinions. Maybe I’m being dumb maybe I’m not who knows. Thank you to anyone who read this far.
I think going on a date with the first guy to see if there are sparks is a sensible decision to make. Only once you've ascertained whether there's a spark between you or not will it be easier to make a clear decision regarding him and the second guy. The honesty is also a good thing; better to be clear with both of them about what's going on, than cause any hurt, anger, etc. on the matter.
I mean I’m not going to go advertise that I’m talking to more then one guy. But untill there’s something I wanna commit to something I don’t see an issue. But yea now I kinda am just asking myself if I actually want a commuted relationship atm. I will at least go on a date with the first guy though. If I feel that “something” on the date then that’s what I’ll go with it otherwise some fun shall commence.
