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No one to talk to

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Yeahyeah2, Mar 10, 2022.

  1. Yeahyeah2

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    Hello,

    So basically that's the problem, I feel I cannot talk to anyone anymore. I have depression and anxiety; most days I feel anxious and/or sad and I keep comparing myself to others and that makes me feel even worse.

    I even think my best friend is tired of hearing my problems and I don't want to lose him. That's why I don't want to tell him how I feel. But at the same time, he is the only one I could talk to before.

    I hate myself for being this way and I really don't know how I can feel better and stop comparing myself to others.

    I know, maybe no one will respond to this thread but I am feeling so sad. Bye
     
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    I am always open! :slight_smile:
     
  3. staticinmyattic

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    I feel the same way a lot. From one to another, you can talk to me
     
  4. ScottG

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    Depression and anxiety feed on themselves. I used to experience that a lot as a teen. As I got into my twenties I came to the realization that I was creating my own misery. I resolved to no longer care about anything but the most basic of needs- food, shelter, safety. Everything else was extra.

    It worked. Now my problem is I don't care about anything but being happy, lol. whenever i feel negative thoughts creep in I tell myself to "screw it". I really don't have any interest in being the old me.

    You can talk to me anytime.
     
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    Have you thought about getting therapy or maybe are on therapy already? I have depression and anxiety as well, but I went to see a psychiatrist and I am on medication and it has helped me.

    If you ever want to talk, then don't hesitate. My PMs are always open too.
     
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    There are almost always people to talk to on EC. Have you had any therapy to try and help you work through your depression and anxiety?
     
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    I agree with ScottG and Rayland. Maybe talking with a therapist or counselor can help.
     
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