So I havent been active for a couple of days, some of you know what Im going through currently. I decided to take my mind off of my situation and go to the local LGBT establishments and cut loose. I noticed something rather disturbing, half or more of the people in gay bars and clubs were straight. I have started to see this back home too. Why are heteros taking over our clubs? When I first started going to gay clubs and bars 10 years ago you'd always see the occasional older straight couple who wanted to have a drink in a safe place or the girl who went with her gay friends. That to me was okay and it didnt take away from our experience or atmosphere. I was in a "Gay" Bar the other night and I swear only me and the bartender were gay, the other 30+ patrons were hetero's, every guy I tried talking too said "Sorry bro Im not gay Im just here with my girl". Its like they go to our bars as tourists hoping to see some gays and lesbians in the wild. The worst was last night a straight girl in her early 20's started hitting on me hard and I politely told her I was gay, she then put her hand on my inner thigh and crotch and whispered in my ear " I can do for you what some girl should have done a long time a go, I can turn you straight". I was shocked and I would have been angry but what she said was so absurd I just laughed in her face, then she called me an asshole. Can you believe her nerve, she was basically sexually assaulted me and then got mad at me. I dont know but I just feel like straight people are trying to steal our culture. one or two hetero's in a gay fine, but 20 or 30 no way. What do you all see in your bars and clubs because I think its getting ridiculous. Sorry if I sound angry Im just venting.