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Discussion in 'The Welcome Lounge' started by Forlong, Jun 4, 2024.

  1. JT1999

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    Same. I have no shame about it but I don't see the benefit of wearing it like a badge. I've told everyone that needs to know which is enough for me. I'm in a straight relationship anyway and I can't imagine that changing.
     
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    That's awesome I rarely meet other women who lift, I had the same issue putting on muscle. It's one of the reasons why I started lifting weights. My last job was physically demanding and I couldn't keep up. When I was little I wanted to be Dominique Dawes, I would practice for hours in my backyard lol. My mom couldn't afford lessons so I watched many recorded shows.
     
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    I've been married for almost 16 years and my husband has been nothing but supportive he was the only person I cared about knowing. I decided I was going to make my marriage work because it wasn't an unhappy relationship it was just my secret that was hurting us.
     
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    Hope one day you get to explore your sexaulity
     
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    Unless me and my husband get a divorce or decide to have an open marriage I highly doubt that will happen. And at this point in my life I feel to old to start a new romantic relationship. I don't know if I would have the mental energy to get to someone new in that way. I'm somewhat of a recluse lol
     
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    On the Sex Values thread you got a really high score in affection/hedonism axis - almost fully exclusive. So I guess open marriage or a threesome is out of the question, wouldn't feel right to you? I guess it depends how much you feel like you need to explore your sexuality, if you are happy just knowing/accepting and using fantasy without feeling the need to practice it in your day to day life then that is definitely the easy choice. There are a lot of advantages to keeping things simple and monogamous.
     
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    No an open marriage or threesome wouldn't feel right to me, just the thought of it makes me feel less connected to my partner. I need that bond to be able to have intimacy. Also, I get very jealous if I feel like my partner is giving someone else more attention than me. And I know my husband feels the same with me. Yeah, that's a hard No for me. I feel that time has passed and I am happy with just knowing.
     
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