Hello. This is my first post and would like to be welcomed here. I'm a 23 year old, who recently discovered themself. I'm sexually male, but I'm actually gender fluid and Bi sexual. With close friends (5 or so) I prefer they use "she/her" when describing me. Almost a month ago, I was a whole different person. I was religious and had the bad parts as well as the good. I had believed I was straight until out of the blue, I saw a random guy cutting grass without a shirt. He was ripped and I liked it a lot. I've become more interested in guys since then, and even having days where I prefer guys more, and others its both. Later on, I started talking with someone who was also gender fluid, and I described what I was going through. Well he eventually agreed that I'm gender fluid, and I've started embracing the female side of me. I even ordered a wig to help the real me come out. I used to be homophobic, but i thankfully stopped recently. I'm still going to church, but no one there knows about my gender or orientation. I hope to post here often. I prefer to use the name Ari.
