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Need relationship help...

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by AeroliteOre, May 18, 2021.

  1. AeroliteOre

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    I have been in off and on relationships online for the past few years, but I recently realized why they were not working. My love language is very physical. I love giving hugs and kisses and cuddling and all of that, but there are no gay people (that I know of) in the area to build a relationship with. How can I find people to talk to and possibly date in my area?
     
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    I was going to suggest a gay bar but saw your age..... Maybe LGBT events?
     
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    Does your school have a GSA? If you live in a rural area it might be difficult until you are able to move away.
     
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    It's hard... I grew up in a rural area. I had only 2 boyfriends that were gay/bi in my area in an 25 year span, at least that were open about it. I'm 33 and I need to get the hell out of here or at least start looking for dates outside of here. I'm not getting any younger... Location is a big deal when it comes to finding love in the LGBT+ community, unfortunately but don't give up hope. Work towards your dreams and try to get out into the world, if you can.
     
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  5. AeroliteOre

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    It does, but the only people that ever show up are bi or lesbian girls, and straight allies. Even then only 4 or 5 people including me show up.