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My friend took it so cool!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by xalex, Apr 28, 2013.

  1. xalex

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    I just came to one of my best friend yesterday at a party. Yes, I was drunk, yes, he was drunk, but it's fine. I don't see any problem with coming out drunk, given that we remember everything the next day:grin: I think it makes it easier, both my best friend who know I told them drunk...:slight_smile:

    Anyway, my friend was soo cool! Basically, as a gay guy, I made out with a girl in a party. 5 mins later my guy best friend tells me to go and get her and I told him
    - Naah, nothing's ever gonna happen.
    - Are you gay?
    - Yes.

    And then he jumped up and was so excited telling me that
    - Ohh you're my first gay friend, that's awesome! We'll have to go to a gay club then!

    I said I'm not his first gay friend but the first who he knows is gay:slight_smile:

    He was so cool about this. I think I have overemphasized that I am NOT attracted to him due to my drunkness, telling him 10 times that I'm very afraid of coming out to straight friends because they might think that I wanna hook up with them. Other than this, it was amazing. Later I thanked him on facebook for being cool with this and he said: don't worry about it i won't let a little thing such as that get in the way of our friendship.

    I LOVE my friends.

    Thank you for reading:slight_smile:
     
  2. greatwhale

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    Such a great read! Congratulations!
     
  3. The Dude

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    Wow, congratulations! Sounds like one of my buddies, very reassuring that the friendship would continue, if not be stronger! Good for you
     
  4. PeteNJ

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    Awesome! Congratulations! Great to have a buddy who's cool with it and on your side!