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My dog will not leave me alone

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by MerBear, Jun 12, 2013.

  1. MerBear

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    This has been going on for months now and i'm getting a little frustrated.
    Everytime, I wake up, she wont leave my side but whenever i try to get up or something she gets all excited. another thing, when i get up to get breakfast or something, she'll go lay on the couch but when i go back to my room, she'll follow me.
    she won't leave my side ....i stay in my room most of the time, you would think, she would want to get out

    i dont know why ...she doesn't usually do this all the time, but for the past months, she's been doing that and she recently has been chewing up our couch while we are gone and eating cat litter.

    How can I get her to stop following me so much?
     
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    Huh, it's been a while since I had a dog. How old is she? Maybe she feels lonely, or needs more exercise, or there is some health issue. It's always hard to say just how dogs communicate. Are their other people around who can take her on walks and such?

    There's always the dog whisperer!
     
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    This is a mild problem. With our dog, we trained her to stay in non-carpeted areas of the house, which meant no bedrooms, so she couldn't smell up the carpets after my parents installed new carpeting. I insisted on a female. They are supposedly more loyal and not as likely to roam. One time, she got out, but I found her sitting behind the gate, wanting back in. She preferred captivity, and being treated well, to her freedom in the big city.

    Yeah, they will eat turds every once in a while. I scolded her verbally when she did that. As long as it's not too often. Must be something they feel they are not getting in their diet. It's also unhealthy and gross. Sounds like she needs some obedience training, but it sounds like she is really bonded to you, too.
     
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    i give her plenty of attention. she is healthy but a bit overweight.
    she has a lot of anxiety because she grew up with my mom and there was a lot of fighting. after my mom died, i took care of her but she was never that close to me really even though, i took care of her since she was a pup.

    My dad takes care of her too. I feed her every night. I don't know.
    it's just she hasn't really left my side these past months but then again, i've been having a whirlwind of emotions
     
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    I would love a little sidekick like that! Accept it, don't get mad at it.
     
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    Yeah but sometimes it gets too much. I need space sometimes
     
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    Dogs are space.
     
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    my dog wont leave me alone ever, but he is always loved. they just need attention. maybe your dog just needs a little more than usual.
     
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    Fine. i will. but again, I need some space.

    Thank you everyone for the advice :slight_smile:
     
  11. Bobbybobby99

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    I mean that I find it odd that you do not count your dog with your space. I consider all of my pets part of my space, and feel most comfortable with them. I find it hard to mentally reason why you would not do the same.
     
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    Lock them up when you need space, but my dog does the same thing, and even though I get annoyed with it sometimes, I like having my little sidekick. :slight_smile:
     
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    They are SO plugged into their owners, that they sense when you are not feeling well, either physically or emotionally. Some more than others. It's really amazing.
     
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    Thats an interesting thought, have you been sad recently OP.
     
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    Most likely just loves u and wants some love and attention

    ---------- Post added 12th Jun 2013 at 11:13 PM ----------

    LLaying in bed with my pit/boxer mix right now....the love of my life!
     
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    Yes...i recently stopped talking to an ex of mine....
    i have cried time to time to.....if only dogs could speak


    i didn't really know that...dogs could sense if something is wrong emotionally
     
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    The best way to deal with anxiety in a dog is exercise. I have a habit of rescuing dogs with unpleasant histories and serious emotional issues, so trust me on this.

    Get the dog outside for walks or play time at the dog park, throw a tennis ball or whatever just wear the dog out as often as possible. You'll have a happier, healthier, less destructive dog.
     
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    Your dog probably feels your sadness, and its not only affecting you but the dog, when you start feeling better tell me if the dog leaves you alone, that would be cool to see if it truly was following you due to sadness.
     
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    I am not a dog expert. I barely know which end holds the collar...

    That said...people who are dog people--and I mean serious dog people--have told me that dogs can sense a lot. One person even relied on the dog's judgment of other people (particularly strangers). If the dog didn't like someone, that person was someone to be cautious with.

    So it's entirely possible that in this case the dog is picking your sadness up.

    Then, again, maybe the dog just wants attention...
     
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    she sleeps with me every night.
    she refuses to sleep on the floor. she might sleep on the floor for awhile but but she'll always come up and sleep with me. always has since she was a pup. as you can tell from my picture in my album.

    she's my side kick and we've looked out for eachother....i love her. i do.
    i dont know....i didn't know they could pick up on sadness.

    all i know, this past month, i can't sleep and i'm ...just sad...or depressed. i dont know