Every time I come here I find something useful, even if I'm not looking for an answer. All morning I've been stressing about whether I made the right decision to come out to my wife or even myself for that matter, Thinking that if I hadn't of opened that door, I could have just kept this bottled up and lived in the closet the rest of my life(sure I would have been lying to myself, but I wouldn't be stressing out, I wouldn't have caused my wife so much pain, I wouldn't have throw my whole life up in the air... I could have just lived a lie... And then I opened up the thread on "Pets" that Zaeiria started to see who else responded, scroll down and read buria97's signature. "If you wanna live, you can't always take the easy path. Sometimes, you have to take the painful ones." - Touko Fukawa. I want to live. Sure it's going to be hard and painful. But I want to Live.
I love that quote. And I am feeling the same as you at the moment. Congrats on coming out to your wife.:eusa_clap It's nice to know that I am not alone in this.
I knew I wasn't the only one going through this, but until I came here I never realized just how many people have and are going through this everyday. It's good to part of a community.
Same. I love coming on here whenever I have an issue and I can rely on people here to at least try to understand what I'm going thought and try to relate and he!p and I can give help in return
Thanks about the quote, it's from a game called: Danganronpa: Another Episode and it resonated with me a ton, I even used it as my senior yearbook quote this past year. Yeah, this website has definitely helped me out a ton. It's given me every answer I've needed in regards to who I am and it's helped me realize that sure, while I may not fall under a lot of the same gay stereotypes others fall under, it doesn't matter. I'm just as gay as any other gay guy and it truly is comforting to meet people going through similar issues to what I'm going and have gone through. I've especially loved the community on this website, it's so welcoming to everyone no matter what they fall under. I've met some great people here and have made some awesome friendships.
I love all of you. Never felt so comfortable in my life. Feels weird sharing my deepest thoughts and secrets to complete strangers, but it feels really good knowing you all relate in some way or another.
I love this site too, feels great tot talk to people who are going through the same things as myself, and I like giving a helping hand when I can.
Okay, okay! We love you too, Stewie! Happy now? (*hug*) Yeah this site is a good place to find good friends. Also being here and hoping you are helping others to come over their struggles makes me feel good.
Welcome back. Yes, this site has been a tremendous help to me. Hard to believe I've been here over a year.
I know Burai irl (sort of), and I can confirm that he and most people on this site are absolutely wonderful people. It's good you are deciding to live. It is a hard thing to do, and rather inconvenient at times, but it has its rewards.
