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Let's talk masturbation!

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by victoriangirl, Nov 20, 2015.

  1. aussielefty

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    I always wonder if girls masturbate as much as guys do ?
     
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    Ehhhh only happens now when I get super sexually tense and I can't take it any more. Freaking dysphoria. If I did it more than about twice a month I would feel like crap because I am trans. So only when necessary...
     
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    Yup, same here. Honest to God, I wish my sex drive would just disappear until I've had surgery, lol.

    Frequency can vary a lot. Sometimes I can do it like 5 times consecutively, but then not do it for two weeks. That's often roughly the pace, lol. Sometimes I can go one month without it. Sometimes I've gone like half a year without it. I would like to simply stop. And I'm trying to do so. God damn it, biology is a formidable enemy, though.

    Sometimes I use my hands if just want to get off. I very much prefer using my fingers, though. The rear is much more fun than the front. ^_^
     
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    Hands

    Depends

    Once ever week or month
     
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    What: I use my hands
    When: In the mornings
    How often:2-3 times a day or every other day
    Where: My bed or in the shower
     
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    Of course we do! :eusa_danc It's just normally taboo for women to say that out loud.

    My sex drive is actually much higher than my husband's (believe it or not), and has always been since I met him.

    What: Fingers (mine or husbands :icon_redf), vibrator, dildo
    When: Any time of day, depending on a variety of factors
    How often: Some weeks it's on average 2 times per day, others 2-3 times a week. When I get depressed it's less.
    Where: At home.
     
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    What: Hands, shower head, pillow - never penetrative because that is really painful.
    When: Usually mornings or nights, or before my shower- so I won't be caught.
    How often: anywhere from 3 times a week to twice a month
     
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    What: hand or bed (will look into toys though)
    When: when not is a better question. It's actually part of my daily routine now.
    How often: at least twice a day, maybe more if I need to let off steam.

    The only thing I like about my penis is sexual pleasure.
     
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    I am pretty inexperienced. I have only tried it once or twice and haven't really found to plesurable. No idea what I am doing wrong!
     
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    Scratch that, apparently! Lol. I talked to my therapist about that today. Apparently she'd consulted with an expert on trans issues and stuff, and according to her, regular masturbation and/or sex makes for better surgery. So yeah, I don't have the luxury of quitting :lol:
     
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    How: I use a pillow or my hand
    When: Most often before I go to sleep or after I wake up.
    Amount: at least once a day, usually twice
     
  12. BandFangirl

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    What do you use?
    Hand.

    When?
    at night

    How often?
    up to 4 times a week but sometimes I like to wait and do it only 1 time a month for a really intense orgasm.

    Where?
    my bed
     
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    What do you use?
    My hand.

    When?
    Mornings, before school.

    How often?
    About once a day, or more if I feel like it.

    Where?
    In my bedroom.
     
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    I masturbate once every other day, fairly regularly. It's useful because it helps me not to get dirty thoughts about other people when I'm with them or feel turned on by them. Most of the time I just use my hands, but I enjoy it anally too.
     
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    What do you use?
    Hand, pillows, vibrator that's actually a face brush for acne but I don't use it that way. (all clitoral, inserting stuff is really painful)

    When?
    Nights usually.

    How often?
    About once a day. On the weekends maybe two or three times. (but I have more than one orgasm a day usually, just one session though)

    Where?
    In my bed, maybe on the couch if no one's around.
     
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    With my hand, in bed or at my computer desk about 1-2 times a day though sometimes I'll go a few days without. I'll do it when horny, when bored, when I'm about to sleep unless completely knackered. If you want aless run of the mill situation... I've done it in the garden while reading using the seam of my jeans lol. Thats as freaky as it gets
     
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    For quite some time now I haven't usually been masturbating very often. Sometimes only once a week or less. My best friend purchased a high-quality glass dildo for me in my stead, and I don't really enjoy masturbating with just my hand anymore, but sometimes I do it when I get horny and I'm laying in bed.

    [Use]- Glass dildo and lube obviously.
    [When]- When I have time to, which isn't very often. Occasionally around bedtime, but I try not to do that as it makes me have trouble sleeping.
    [Where]- Almost exclusively the shower because of the mess and cleanup, but sometimes my bed.
    [How often]- Generally once a week. If I do it much more the orgasms are extremely weak and it pretty much feels like nothing.
     
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    When?: when I'm bored or in the toilet.
    Where? In the toilet
    With what? My hand
     
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    What do you use?: Hands/Cold nail polish bottles/markers/pretty much anything
    When: I have private timme

    How often: Roughly twice a day

    Where: My bed/bathroom


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    Funfact: I found my mom's old vibrator and I was so tempted that I actually smuggled it out of her room whenever I could until I broke it. (I heavily washed it before and after) I can simply say that once I turn 18, that will be one of my random 'going off to college' investments xD.
     
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    I don't have any toys, just my hands.

    I usually do it 2 or3 times a day. If I'm decently hard in the morning, I usually masturbate before I get up. Otherwise, I usually do it after work and again sometime at night.

    I haven't been doing it as much lately, though, and it's bn kind of forced. I guess I'm just too tired any ore to enjoy it.