Lesbians + Bis (Sorry Everyone else!) Dress or Tux?

One of the BEST weddings I want to was super casual. It was a backyard BBQ on a lake up in Alaska, and the groom wore a Hawaiian shirt and shorts. The bride did wear a white dress, but it was a really casual one. It was so much fun.

That said, I want a dress. And I'd like my fiance and I to walk down the aisle together with our parent(s).

 

Same here, I'm a dress girl. I wear fleece tights in the winter to help with the cold.

I'm both scared and excited about the idea of marriage. I know my partner and I would both do the white dress wedding. As scared as I am of the financial commitment of marriage, I love my girlfriend and would proudly say yes if asked. Her family seems to think weddings have to be huge (they better pay then! We're fine with something small).

I'd be so happy if our parents would do the walk down the aisle with us!

 

difference between men & womyn I guess, most of us are asking for some kind of romance & ceremony

 

I picked suit because I'm leaning towards that option but I don't care either way it all depends really.

 

I would prefer a dress

 

I would prefer a suit. I hate dresses with a fiery passion and would hate to wear one on the happiest day of my life.

 

I don't know, I like wearing both for special occasions, though for every day wear I hate dresses. I think it depends on the personality of the person I would be marrying.

 

I'll probably wear a dress. I don't wear them often, but I do like dresses enough that I'd want to wear one at my wedding.

 

I'm not particularly a dress/skirt kind of girl but when I got married I wore a fitted, full length (with a bit of a train) satin dress with sparkles. Granted..the fact this was a hetero wedding kind of limited my options in not wearing a dress, but I was completely surprised by the dress I chose. I'd grown up saying I would be wearing a trouser suit to my wedding and suddenly I got caught up in it all. The dress was gorgeous though.

If I were to get married, this time to a woman, I don't think I would wear a "proper" wedding dress, but not sure if I would go the trouser route.

 

I want my future wife and I to both wear dresses. I love dresses. Tuxedos are fantastic and all, but you just can't deny the allure of a dress that accentuates a woman's curves.

 

I'd honestly just prefer to get married quietly without a big wedding ceremony, so ideally I wouldn't dress up at all. It kind of would depend on whether my partner wants a wedding, in which case I'd wear a dress.

 

I'm not the kind of person that like to use dresses. But it's my marriage and cant see me without a dress.
~just one thing: I wouldn't use a high heels even if you pay me.. but it's a problem the future wife me will solve....

 

Awww! I love those pictures!!! They're both gorgeous, and Kat is really adorable. Thanks for sharing!

 

The couple in that link look awesome - and a great way to show that whatever style is yours, you can make a wedding outfit work.

A little off topic, but I cringed when I first saw the link there, purely because of the website it linked to; I opened it waiting to get to the comments section and be bowled over by the bile being spouted there. It was stunning, but brilliant, to see the majority were positive. First time comments on that website haven't made me very upset/cross in a long time!

 

We've already said were both wearing dresses at the wedding, however I will be changing into a woman's pants suit at the reception. She is keeping her dress.

I'd prefer a pants suit like this one

 

A suit---preferably a Santa one.

Jk, a dress, of course.

 

There's something incredibly sexy about a woman in a long summery dress or in a summery shirt and a vest... Weddings take a lot of thought, so I clicked "other", because I would probably go for the summery feel if I were getting married.

Oh, by the way, I was watching some flash mob proposals on youtube, and came by this very cute one: Marry You Proposal - Lily + Nicole (and Treble NYC) - YouTube

(*hug*)