I remember reading somewhere that a lot of times, straight people who are in love with gay people will think to themselves, "if only I were hotter, they'd love me, too." And there I was, frustrated that my hot crush think's I'm great but that he mentioned his girlfriend to me, thinking to myself, "maybe if I get a personal trainer, maybe, just maybe, he'd like me, too..." All I can do is laugh and remind myself, no, it doesn't work that way... :rolle: