Later in Life Issue

Back again as I sort through issues in this great forum. Again as I progress questions come up that I can't seem to answer.
One being my bf while totally supportive during my coming out after being in a straight relationship is very clearly anti-woman. He is never openly rude or hurtful but in private he acts like women are a different species. He still finds it hard to believe that I was ever attracted to women in a sexual way. He was always openly gay, I was not. Is this anywhere near normal? While I now find the idea of sex with a woman gross, I have no issues with women in general. Also he hints once in a while that I am not gay enough. When I ask him he doesn't seem to have a clear answer. I am out, in a relationship with him, 100% gay , support gay issues, I am not sure what else there is. Gay is part of who I am now. Help.