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Kids?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Renge, Dec 19, 2012.

  1. BENDERBOY

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    Myself and CupidBoy are looking at adopting.
     
  2. CupidBoy

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    I've got one picked out too.
     
  3. Renge

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    oh you guys are couple?
     
  4. TheUndiscovered

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    I'd like to have kids I think it'd be like an adventure!
     
  5. revi

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    Yussss! I'm amazing with kids and have ALWAYS wanted to have children.
     
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    I really, really want to have a biological son later on, once I'm in my mid 30s or so. I think I'd be a kickass dad to boys, but I just don't feel like I could raise a daughter the way she deserves, though my future husband might feel differently. For that reason, I don't think I could go the biological route since there's a 50/50 chance it'll be a kid that I don't feel I could give a proper home, which breaks my heart. My future husband and I will probably end up adopting a boy or two.
     
  7. MrHojalata98

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    I'm going to have kids I don't care what I have to do it I'm gonna have kids. When I was denying being gay kids were my biggest obstacle. I've always loved kids. I like spending time with them and I'm fairly good with them, so when I get married whether it's through adoption or surrogate I WILL get kids :slight_smile:
     
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    I'd like to say yes, but honestly I don't think it would work out.
    I'm the kind of person that likes to expend my energy into my partner, and because of my career choice, I would have little time for kids.
    But you never know I guess. If it would work for us all yes of course.
    Though it'd have to be adoption.
     
  9. BoiGeorge

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    Possibly. And i would love to adopt from Africa! :slight_smile: i have 3 cousins from there and i have a real heart for kids in Africa
     
  10. hello1992

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    I'm good with kids and its somethign that may eventually want to do, but after realziing i was gay I kind of gave up on the idea of kids. Kids are a lot of work and can be annoying, i reckon i will be busy enough as it is with a career and stuff...
     
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    I've been feeling somewhat 'broody' lately. I don't particularly like other people's kids, but my cousin just had an adorable boy and two of my close friends had daughters. Love those kids. And the more time I spend around them, the more I want one..
     
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    When I'm 30-something, I'll definitely want a kid or two. Now is not the right time for me. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I really don't want kids, but if my wife were dead-set on it then I would revisit my decision (not necessarily change it, but think about it).
     
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    Yeah me too. I always imagined myself having kids when I was younger and knowing that gay couples can't have kids was one of many reasons I decided I didn't want to be gay.

    I'd love to have kids and if I end up with a guy who wants kids aswell then we'll definitely go for it.
     
  15. gordilocks

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    i never want to get married, let alone have kids
     
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    I definitely do not want children.
     
  17. timo

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    No.

    I think I wrote quite a rant on this once but long story short: I sincerely dislike kids.

    Edit: here it is.. Not as long as I thought it was.
     
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    I've never really thought about it, I don't hate kids or ought but just never thought about it.
     
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    Wow, I was amazed at this thread and the perception of life many of you have, until I went back and realized most of you are barely old enough to even be out of high school. To be blunt, when it comes to life's experiences you haven't even been off the front porch yet. Your offspring can be a source of joy and pride. And if you're surprised by that, wait until you have grand kids, it gets even better. :slight_smile: