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Just in need of some help...

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by TGgamer, Jul 14, 2013.

  1. TGgamer

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    Just to get to the point. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm 22 year old male, but that last part has always bugged me. I feel like I should have been born a female. I've never really been one of the "guys". Never felt the urge to do sports or anything guy like. The thing is that I can't really talk to anyone about this battle going on inside of my head which is dealing with thinking about MTF. Everyone would loss the respect they have for me.

    Thinking about it for so long has made me depressed as I don't have any idea what to do. I have a good feeling I would be disowned by my family, friends, and girl friend. I know that the longer I wait, the less effective MTF would be.

    I just need some help. Someone to give advice or just to chat.
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  2. myheartincheck

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    Do you have anyone to talk to or get advice from? I notice you say you're male on here... A good start might be to come out on an anonymous site. :slight_smile:
     
  3. bethpurple

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    I don't have advice for you, but I am lonely and would be happy to 'just chat'. :slight_smile:
     
  4. TGgamer

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    I don't or I would have talked to them already. I'm from a small town that you basically know everyone and everyone knows you. A secret would spread fairly quickly.

    ---------- Post added 16th Jul 2013 at 05:39 PM ----------

    Thank you. I'll send you a message.

    Edit.. it wouldn't let me message you >.<
     
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  5. bethpurple

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    You can't send private messages unless you become a full member, you have to have been here for 2 weeks and have at least 50 posts, and then apply for the upgrade - I haven't been here that long, I can't send PMs either. We can either talk here, on the forum, or we can post messages on our profile walls.
     
  6. LD579

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    However, you can send Private Messages to any staff member.

    Only Full Members can send Private Messages to other Full Members. Full Members are also able to enter the chat room.

    Regular Members can only send them to staff members.

    It should be mentioned that applying and becoming a Full Member is completely free and easy =)
     
  7. TGgamer

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    It is going to seem like a long two weeks. lol