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I've never had an interest in sex

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Jon99, Jul 3, 2017.

  1. Jon99

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    Literally whatsoever now that I think about it, not with women or men. Whenever people I knew talked about sex, or crushes on celebrities or people at school, I just never understood it, almost alien. I've felt attraction to some people of both sexes though, does this mean I'm asexual? Demisexual?
     
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    If you have felt attraction, then you aren't asexual. Demisexual has no scientific proof, and is a descriptor than a sexuality itself. Some people take longer to be interested in sex or crushes.
     
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    I'm not really that interested in sex either, but I still identify as a sexual since I feel attraction to people. -shrug- Just easier to explain.
     
  4. That's good if you've felt attraction to both sexes. Your attraction for someone won't change. But for
    Some people sex just isn't a big thing. It doesn't mean your not going to try it or do it. I'd explore yourself and continue on with your life the way it's going :slight_smile:
     
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    Most likely you're just a normal guy, on the low-but-normal end of the spectrum of sexual arousal/excitement. You don't say how old you are, but if you're still in your teens, you may simply be one who is a bit of a late bloomer, and sexual arousal and excitement will increase for you in coming years. Do you masturbate fairly regularly? If so, do you feel arousal and excitement when doing so?