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It is becoming harder and harder to tell who's Gay or Not

Discussion in 'Family, Friends, and Relationships' started by Chromedome, Sep 28, 2014.

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  1. Chromedome

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    With all these trendy things life metrosexual and "coughs" "spornosexuals". Many straight guys wear earrings, and skinny jeans, well kept, listen to girly pop music and do alot of the things that would be gay stereotypes ten years ago.I just give up and trying to find out who's gay using my gaydar besides the obvious campy ones. How am I to not fall for a straight guy?
     
    #1 Chromedome, Sep 28, 2014
  2. resu

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    I think it's a good thing. When straight guys aren't afraid to seem gay, gay guys won't be afraid to "act straight". Of course, it's harder to tell who is gay, but it will be easier to ask.
     
    #2 resu, Sep 28, 2014
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    Always assume everyone is gay and "see" if they aren't in fact straight. Just change your mindset (radar) to "sort out" straights among gays. Way simpler this way!

    Also, if you see some obviously straight "flamboyant" guy, go right on ahead and talk to him as if he was gay. Obviously (this hypothetical guy) is at least curious, otherwise why would he dress and act like that?
     
    #3 shinji, Sep 28, 2014
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    not fall for a straight guy? you can control your feelings? even if so, not every gay men look like on tv, so thinking that way, you can miss someone you would be happy with couse he don`t listen to justin bieber huh , i think you should better rely on your feelings, not logics
     
    #4 omnomnom, Sep 28, 2014
  5. Fallingdown7

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    Most of the gay men I know are masculine and 'straight-acting' and I do think It's nice that straight men are breaking gender roles too. I do understand why It's frustrating though, but people come in all different groups
     
    #5 Fallingdown7, Sep 28, 2014
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