Is it normal to not want sex most of the time?

My sex drive is kind of... weird. I haven't had sex in a really long time (about ten years) and I don't feel much sexual frustration as such, just more a longing to know if I could have good sex (which I never have) if I tried it again (especially with a woman).

I actually got in a discussion recently on whether there's a term for someone who experiences sexual attraction but doesn't enjoy sex when they have it. All I can come up with is "frigid" and that's misogynistic and nasty.

I'm not trying to say I have to have a label, just more... I want to know if I'm the only one.

But anyway to answer the original question I think it's normal to not want sex much and also normal to be really nervous about it. I've talked to plenty of people (and I mean people younger than me) who do not want sex much.