Not in the least. We have been sold a bill of goods from our heteronormative programming that a man isn’t supposed to like sexy soft things to wear. Total hogwash, wear what makes you feel good about yourself straight, gay or bi it doesn’t matter.
it kills me that the social norms i was taught torment me to this day. I love women's clothes and shaving my legs etc.. i have to hide it too much.
I feel you so much. I love shaving my chest and feeling as if i had breasts and dressing in women's closthes
I am glad to hear I am not alone. Mens clothing is generic and boring. I am happy to see skirts are slowly becoming mainstream. When I have my robe on I like to imagine it is a dress.
I agree with everyone above. The make and female archetypes entrenched by our culture and rather stupid and confusing, but strong and powerful…. To push against them means you are not mainstream and that’s all. If we continue to believe in who we are, the A-types will be to shift but take many decades to break the images down. The answer to me is be who you are and live that everyday. Not in the shadows or hidden away. Right up front to everyone. That comes from me who is wishing I lived the way I spoke. Hang in there!
I find a man who is completely shaven, wearing silk panties so very sexy. I enjoy keeping myself very smooth and waxing is the only way to make my skin silky smooth. I think a naked man who is completely smooth is more sexy than a naked woman who is shaven. It is close, but given the choice, I would always pick the man.
I’m with you Bob! I think both women and men in the same situation (naked, body shaven, wearing silks thongs or tight panties, are super hot. Men who have completed HRT or surgically added breasts and wig with a nice skirt/blouse or dress on, etc., yep! I’ve been wearing thongs for years and love the feel. Men have been screwed by the fashion world and are locked into uncomfortable fabrics that sweat and cover us up. We don’t have to dress that way! I have several bras with silicone inserts I wear in public. My body is shaved except for my head. I have long hair and a very short beard. As far as my pick, I’ll go either way or both ways anyday. The problem is finding meaningful relationship/s.
