I have told around 13 of my friends that I am gay, the problem is that I have never told anyone that I am gay in person I have always done it via text messages. When I thought I was just bi I told my mom via a text message I couldn't even tell a gay friend that I'm gay in person. I feel that if/ when I come out to everyone and people ask me if it is true that I'm gay I will do what I do now and just say no. I have no idea how to make it easier to just day the simple words I'm gay. Another thing I have a slight problem with is I don't care at all if people say or think I'm gay behind my back but if someone asks me if I'm gay, I say no and then later I guess I get mad or something like that because they asked with no evidence. I guess I get mad because the same person has asked me 3 times and each time I said no. I guess I want to know if this is unusual or something I should care about.