I'm in love with my brother.

dano218 · Nov 18, 2013

AwesomGaytheist said: ↑

If you love him then you'll keep your hands off him. If he was abused, you would be abusing him all over again. You would have took advantage of his younger age and developmental gap. You'd be harming him all over again, and I guarantee you that if you two did have sex, when he gets older, he is not going to love you, because he'll realize eventually that he'd been taken advantage of.

My fingers are shaking I'm so mad reading through the three pages that make up this thread. You need help, and you need to keep your hands to yourself. I was abused as a child, and when I actually had consensual sex later on, it was because I was ready and in love with someone my own age. If he were 26, I would have felt used and abused all over again.

I'm going to end my 1,800th post (and I never thought it'd be about this subject) here, because I could go on and on about how I feel about this subject as a lover and as a survivor of sexual abuse myself, but most of it has already been said, and if I was writing it, it would all have to be censored.

But I'll leave you with this: everything you do has a consequence. Be ready to deal with the consequences of your actions.

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JulianEs said: ↑

Guys, you don't seem to understand our relationships with him. I am old and experienced enough to recognize a teenage crush. They suck at hiding emotions. Let's put it that way, I know he has one on me. There is a good chance I scare him with my confession (I think he was molested as a child by his father, he doesn't speak much about it though), but he wants it still. I mean innocent flirt occurs all the time, he is simply scared to love someone who is that old for the same reason, but still IS attracted to me.
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That'si a predator speak. Sorry that I'm blunt, and I'm going to be direct with you because of the nature of this conversation, but you are sick and you need professional help, which we can't give. I care about that boy and his well-being, and this is sick and messed up on so many levels. You need to get a therapist and work these issues out and make a plan so that your brother stays safe.
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I don't think the OP is a predator he's a normal human being who has feelings for the wrong person. I agree both of them need sone kind of help.

I'm in love with my brother.

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