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I'm a half chicken.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by zzzero, Jun 21, 2010.

  1. zzzero

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    Ok, so i'm only half chickening out right now. Or i'm starting a chain of events that leads me to be out completely, but I changed my FB just now, so it says Interested in: men. However, I put my roommates and family on the exclude list so they cant see it.

    Maybe this is stupid of me, but I figure when I'm positive I want them to know, then I'll let them see it right before I tell them. Or i'll just randomly do it one day and wait for them to ask if they ever see it lol.
     
  2. D_Alejandro

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    Do it when you feel comfortable and ready. And take your time, you can't rush things like these! :slight_smile:

    Maybe subtle hints will help you have a smoother coming out?
     
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    Yeah, I'm totally ready for them and everyone else to know but I instinctively avoid awkward situations so it's hard to overcome that. Sometimes i'm sitting in my room and I want to just scream "I'm gay!" just to get it overwith
     
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    we all come out at own pace. Do what it is in your comfort zone.