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Ignorant stuff straight people say

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BlueMonday, Jul 18, 2020.

  1. BlueMonday

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    "How do you know you're gay if you haven't been with a woman?"

    "So, you want to get a sex change?"

    "You're too good looking to be gay."

    Anything else to add?
     
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    "How can you prefer ___ to ___?!"

    "Which is the man or the woman?"

    "Its not natural"

    "Just pick a side!" or "Bisexuality doesn't exist"

    "I have no issue with gay people/You do you" then follows up by saying something homophobic
     
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    “You don’t act gay”
     
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    FACT: All the handsome men are gay. :smiley:
     
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    "God didn't make Adam and Steve." This one is yawn inducing... God didn't make Adam and Eve either.
     
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    Precisely.
     
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    "It is just a phase"
    "Lesbian sex isn't real sex."
    "You're probably straight. You just haven't met the right [insert opposite sex from]"
     
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    "Why would you choose to go against God?!"
    "Wait if you like girls, does mean you like me?"
    "Bi people are just people who are secretly gay."
    "Non-binary people don't exist."
    "If you like girls, does that make you transgender?"
     
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    my friend said #1. I keep telling myself #2. Before I used to say #4. I heard a group of guys asking a gay guy #5.
     
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    "They're not bi; they're just saying that because it's the 'cool' thing right now".
     
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    “It’s a choice”
    “Gay men are women and lesbians are men”
     
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    To be fair, there is some of this that can come from the LGBT community as well. Internalized homophobia and transphobia are a product of upbringing from which we are not immune. Still, having to unlearn all that stuff is a huge help in the self-awareness department, so it's not *as* bad as the stuff that straight people say.
     
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    Agreed. Though a lot of it is unintentional, yeah?

    There have been a very gay people who I have spoken to places and I have tried to relate to them and they are like ‘well, you wouldn’t understand because homophobic people like you more because you are also open to dating guys’ . And I am like, I have it worse right now because not only do homophobic people not accept me but some gay people don’t. No one has ever been that rude on here though.
     
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    "If you like girls now, why did you date that boy?"

    "You always liked ___ when you were younger."

    Or my personal favorite when I was dating a girl, "Ya'll want a plus one?"
     
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    What are bisexuals? Pterodactyls?
     
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    A good response I once heard was "Eve was made from Adam's DNA so no it isn't Adam and Steve, that's her dead name"
     
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    "But you're not that fashionable"