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If you could change your sexual orientation, would you? If yes, to what?

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  1. andimon

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    Yes, if I were straight I would change my sexual orientation to gay because it feels right for me :slight_smile:
     
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    Some days I really wish I was either gay or straight for many reasons... When I was a bit younger, it was because I wanted to be "normal". But it's also because I don't want to complicate my life and add another label in it.
    But I have to say that... Most of the time, naaaah... I'm proud of being bi. I was meant to be who I am and I am that person for a reason :slight_smile:
     
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    Since I'm still not sure I'd make it lesbian probably. Bi/pan would be good too, but I've gotten used to the idea of being gay so that would be nice
     
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    At the moment, I half think it would be nice to change to asexual... I may be pessimistic, but I can't really imagine a relationship ever. It would be nice to have no attractions so I wouldn't care if I never had a relationship.
     
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    I also wish I was Asexual I think it would be easier for me tbh..
     
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    Yes, from bi to either pan or asexual.
     
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    I would say "no" if i lived in a country that wouldn't get me killed for coming out. you know, even in the most gay accepting countries/cultures there are still a lot of homophobic people, but you'll get an experience that will make you stronger and thick-skinned in the future, that straight people wouldn't normally experience. and it's a great -painful at first- experience that i'm proud i've got through, accepting yourself even if a lot of people tell you you're in the wrong or "something's wrong with you as a human being"
    but in countries that doesn't legalize homosexuality, yes you'll share that experience too, but you'll have to live a lie for the rest of your life.
     
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    I'd 100% change my sexuality to bisexual just because of the options. Being gay has limited my choices in partners which kinda sucks.
     
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    I'd probably just change it to be more solidly and concretely bisexual, because right now I think I might be but a lot of things are still very unclear and contradictory. I guess it's not so much as changing my sexual orientation as it is wishing I was more confident in it.
     
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    don't worry about it... if it makes you happy.., my pleasure


     
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    No. There's a certain simplicity in being asexual. It makes things so much easier for someone like me who doesn't want to ever date or get married or, ew, have kids. :grin:
     
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    I'd do it and make myself 200% gay.